Wednesday, August 5, 2009

Full Moon, Lunar Eclipse in the 10th house

A coworker stopped talking to me out of the blue this afternoon. She often sends me instant messages and walks by my desk to say goodbye. I returned from lunch today to find her signed off of her instant messenger and she walked the opposite direction to leave for the day.
To me, this is clear behavior that says, "I'm mad at you". What did I do though? What upsets me more is that this person would never say that they were mad or upset, but will obviously use the passive aggressive defense mechanisms instead.
Unfortunately, this hurts me to the core. This type of behavior to someone like me is toxic and painful. It hurts more when someone uses this type of non verbal distance, rather than just saying "Here is my problem with you".

I took off the new moon eclipse, and wish I had taken off this full moon too. I can still take off tomorrow...


  1. Geez, I can't stand it when people do that to me too. I'm always like, "wtf did I do wrong?" and people are so passive aggressive. It's like a guessing game. Maybe confront her and ask her what's going on? Or maybe she's dealing with some issues too...

    love you, Alicia <33

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  3. Kat, I took off a few days from work and it's really helped to cleanse out that negative energy. :) Much love to you too!

    Hi Jason, welcome to my blog! I will say hello over at your site. :)

  4. to elaborate on what taurusrising said, is it possible she is having a crisis? i fell of the side of the earth when my ex left me a few months ago. i could barely brush my teeth in the morning, let alone carry on any kind of conversation. maybe a note in her inbox saying "is there something up?" would help...i'm sorry you had your feelings hurt, but it really may not be something you said/did. good luck!

  5. Hi chrispito and welcome! I recognize you from over in Elsa's land...:)

    Thankfully it was just a day event with my coworker. I'm not exactly sure what got into her, considering she had been cheery all day prior to her cutting off communication with me. I am pretty sure there was no crisis, as she is pretty direct and up front about most things. She is however, in her third trimester, so I might just chaulk it up to pregnancy hormones...
    Thankfully, all is well now. But I do know that I should be more direct when others are passive agressive with me, both people beating around the bush never gets anything done. :)