A coworker stopped talking to me out of the blue this afternoon. She often sends me instant messages and walks by my desk to say goodbye. I returned from lunch today to find her signed off of her instant messenger and she walked the opposite direction to leave for the day.
To me, this is clear behavior that says, "I'm mad at you". What did I do though? What upsets me more is that this person would never say that they were mad or upset, but will obviously use the passive aggressive defense mechanisms instead.
Unfortunately, this hurts me to the core. This type of behavior to someone like me is toxic and painful. It hurts more when someone uses this type of non verbal distance, rather than just saying "Here is my problem with you".
I took off the new moon eclipse, and wish I had taken off this full moon too. I can still take off tomorrow...